54 Tips For Mind-Blowing Sex C/O Men And Women Across The Globe! [NSFW]

What if I told you there was a list of the best sex tips from men and women worldwide collated into one list? I’ve saved you the effort of trawling the web, asking friends and evenings of trial and error. Here’s a bunch of sex tips that people wish you knew in the bedroom, and they’ve shared their top tips for mind-blowing sex:

1. The neck, guys. Girls like the neck, guys like the neck. Everyone likes the neck. (No but really, it’s super sensitive. Use that to your advantage.)
2. When she says “just like that” it means “just like that”. Don’t speed up. Don’t slow down.
3. If you love the person you’re having sex with, incorporate your love as much as possible. Kisses, hand-holding, caressing. Treat that person like Bob Ross treats his paintings. Its like the cream/custard/jelly in the middle of a doughnut you thought was plain.
4. Oral sex, learn it, use it and eat pineapples
5. Listen. Seriously it sounds ridiculously simple, but you’d be surprised.
6. Foreplay really does work.
7. Don’t always expect a blow job if you’re not willing to go down on a woman in return.
8. Be vocal. Say what you want, say what feels good, say what doesn’t. Either communicate with your partner, or don’t be upset when it’s mediocre.
9. Eye contact. Not too creepy though. I like watching his reaction anyway.
10. Here’s one that requires little to no effort or skill. Compliment, compliment, compliment. Your partner will feel better, more confident, comfortable and receptive.
11. Don’t be afraid to squeeze her tits.
12. Use coconut oil but not with latex condoms.
13. Men, lift her up a bit if you are in missionary, use that angle to make her lose her mind.
14. Don’t be afraid to laugh together. Sex is a ridiculous and hilarious series of acts. The best sex I ever had was when my partner and I were not afraid to be goofy and silly and just enjoy each other.
15. Say the word fuck a lot, smile, be confident in what you’re doing.
16. Don’t give up when going down.
17. Foreplay. Foreplay foreplay foreplay foreplay foreplay.
18. Keep things wet. No one wants raw skin on skin rubbing and tugging. Use your mouth to really lather up that bad boy. That way, not only is it easier for your to get your mouth around it, but hand jobs are way more enjoyable.
19. Good sex = good intimacy. Reason why high school sex sucks, you gotta be hiding without even having enough time to make yourself comfortable.
20. Suggest inviting somebody into the bedroom to spice things up. Remember, don’t choose a friend because things can get messy (and not in a good way!). Try an escort or a meet up website.
21. For the love of God, don’t fake it. It doesn’t help you or him. Exaggerating a little might help if the guy isn’t getting your cues, but don’t outright fake everything. TELL US WHAT MIGHT WORK BETTER.
22. If you’re male: Moan, don’t be silent! Oh and don’t close your eyes all the time, some people interpret this wrong.
23. While you are moving your mouth up and down, swirl your tongue from side to side for extra sensation.
24. Play with his balls while you suck him, the dual stimulation is apparently quite enjoyable.
25. HAVE FUN. Nothing is sexier than a girl having fun.
26. Think of it as a dance and your bodies are moving in your own rhythm. I was terrible on top until I came to this conclusion and dated a drummer. It helps.
27. If you are a busy couple, plan time to turn your cellphones off and your partner on.
28. Don’t be afraid to try new things.
29. Biting (gently) and sucking their bottom lip while kissing.
30. Men are not mind readers. Some guys need to be coaxed or guided or outright told what is working and what is not. It may be awkward initially, but it will help in the long run.
31. Girls won’t admit it, but they do like to get fucked really hard.
32. When she gets home and is ready to relax, undo her bra and scratch lightly under where the strap has been all day.
33. Ice tongue, Simply place ice cubes in mouth for 30 seconds. Remove ice cube and go down.
34. BDSM. Do it. It’s fun. Until It’s not fun. Then Stop.
35. Talk dirty.
36. Everyone is different. Pay attention.
37. Don’t be selfish. Make sure she finishes too.
38. Surprise your other half by introducing sex toys into the bedroom.
39. Ab workouts. Nothing sucks more than getting down to do the dirty and realising you don’t have the stamina or abs to do what you want for as long as you want.
40. Practice.
41. I like people touching my boobs during sex. Don’t stop touching them.
42. Don’t be shy, get naked (all the way naked) and enjoy it. That’s the goal.
43. Quit tugging on my dick so Goddamn hard.
44. Nibble on the earlobe. All the women I’ve been with it’s driven them crazy.
45. Kisses everywhere, make sure not a single part of her body goes untouched.
46. You gotta be a good kisser. Nothing is more important to get (and keep) things going.
47. Start slow. Let there be a build up and make him beg for it before you give him everything he wants.
48. Listen also to a mans breathing and learn to recognise his pattern for general enjoyment and to try and make the experience more varied.
49. Use lube for anal and don’t be afraid to use copious amounts. It pays off in the end. Also first time for girls hurts so go slow and when she says stop, pull your dick out and cuddle like a real man. She deserves it.
50. A blow job shouldn’t be like a car ride; boring and generally going in one direction. It should be like a roller coaster, fun and varied and always something new to keep you excited.
51. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do.
52. I like to put a little lotion in my hand to make it glide easier.
53. No teeth. Ever. Bad.
54. Touch and tease, kiss and whisper, don’t just dive right into things, but ease in and raise the temperature inch by inch until you’re both worked up.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/28lqig/whats_your_best_sex_tiptrick/