Now you’re an adult, you and your mums are equals and best friends. So, how about putting some time aside to spend just with her? I’ve spent so much quality time with my mum recently doing lots of wedding planning, it’s been he best. Here are some super fun and simple ways you can spend time with your mum and hopefully make a regular thing of it!

Treat yourselves to an afternoon tea

There’s no getting away from it: afternoon teas are a British thing. Which means that we do some of the best in the world! Beautifully cut sandwiches, delicately filled with deliciously, light fillings. Thick slices of the most indulgent cakes and cream filled pastries topped with fresh fruit. Select the backdrop of a country hotel, a countryside vista or even just in your favourite café in town. There’s nothing better than catching up and spending time together over a cup of tea and a cream cake (or two). Bliss.

Have some heavy-duty pampering

You both lead busy lives, and everyone deserves the chance to relax, unwind and forget about the outside world for a while. So, with that in mind, why not treat mum and yourself to an afternoon at a local spa. A session in the sauna, a few lengths in the pool and a much needed soak in the jacuzzi. Not forgetting the treatments of offer. You’ll both feel a million dollars.

Join forces in the kitchen

You’ve probably learnt everything you know about cooking from your mum. So, why not get together and make a feast for the whole family. Plan a range of dishes and work together to make it all from scratch. It’s a lovely way to spend time together, chat and learn from each other!

Check out some old photographs

I recently asked my nana if she had any photos of her parents I could look at. Purely because I’d never seen any before! What followed was 4 hours of sifting through piles and piles of black and white images from times gone by. The different clothes, styles and images were an incredible window into her childhood. We also enjoyed looking at and comparing photos of my younger self too! So dig out all those old photo albums and take a trip down memory lane together.

Play a board game

Who didn’t play board games with their mum on a rainy Sunday? The difference these days is that you can play games that are age-appropriate for both of you – sorry Operation fans! Sit down together and enjoy a game of scrabble or something guaranteed to make you both giggle. Break out the snacks and a bottle of wine and you’re guaranteed a great night in each other’s company.

Go on a shopping spree together

Hands down, your mother’s tastes and impeccable style can give any fashionista a run for her money. Besides, who could possibly be a more supportive and honest shopping buddy?

Thanks mum, love you

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Here are some signs that may show a woman that he is he’s a keeper on the first date:

1. He didn’t turn up like he just rolled out of bed

If he appears to be well groomed, showing that he took his time to look his best, then it is clear that he cares about you. You will undoubtedly notice someone who went out of his way to give you a great first impression and to win you over. On the other hand, if he does not try to look amazing on the first date, then chances are he won’t care later in the relationship as well, if you manage to even move to the next level with him.

2. Conversation flows naturally

To know if he is the one for you, the top sign on the list is the way the conversation between both of you flows. You feel free and comfortable to talk about everything with him. He lets you express yourself freely and does not appear to be judging you, and he does not make you hold back or feel nervous when you disagree on some matters. You can both speak without any reservation, and your conversations are interactive—they are not monologues.

3. Keep an eye out for the little things

A woman can tell if a man is the one for her if he makes kind gestures, even very small ones. For example, he may bring you a gift or choose a venue that is in line with your taste. Maybe you connected online through a dating site, like happymatches.com, which is a great site for connecting lovers and even fixing up sugar relations.

As you have been chatting, he has gotten to know your likes and dislikes. He seems eager to make you happy and thus gets you something that you previously said you would like, demonstrating that he is an attentive listener. Such acts indicate that he deserves a second date.

4. You are comfortable being YOU around him

When you do not have to put on a front or be hard on yourself around him, you may take that as a sign that he is the one. Also, you feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything, and he also appears comfortable to reciprocate.

5. Watch how to treats other people

A guy who is kind to those serving you, for example waiters and the staff at the hotel or restaurant, will likely treat you well, too. Conversely, if he is full of contempt for those he may deem lower than him, he will most likely not treat you as well.

Final words

It is crucial to have in mind that not every good guy may be the one for you, or that showing the above signs does not automatically mean he is the one. Thus, you should remember that, as you check for the above indicators, there could be more than meets the eye. All the same, you also have to be aware of what signals you send to guys, and most of all listen to your gut feeling when looking for the above signs, which can help you spot the right man.

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Amicable breakups do happen; it’s just a case of knowing how to have one. Going from a couple to friends isn’t easy, it is a process that can take a lot of time. The key to success when it comes to having an amicable break-up and staying friendly is communication. Without it, working out the ins and outs of your break-up and staying close with your ex-partner is impossible.

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  How You Can Keep The Spark In Your Relationship Live And Kicking

If you are keen to have an amicable break-up, keep reading. Here are all of the best tips and pieces of advice for talking your way to a more amicable separation.

Have a break-up talk

Talking when you are in such pain isn’t an easy task, but if you want there to be any hope of the two of you becoming friends, it’s vital that you have a break-up talk. This should allow you both to process your feelings, ask any questions that you have, and talk about the ins and outs of your break-up. If you are worried about an argument arising, it could be worth looking into using a mediation solicitors to mediate your break-up talk and get everything sorted out. Aim to be open and honest with your partner about why you would like to break-up and ask that they do the same. Don’t be vague, because this can cause resentment, be straight about why you want to end things.

Take responsibility

Regardless of the reason why you want to break-up, remember that it takes two to tango. Don’t blame your partner for the break-up, instead be willing to take responsibility for your part in things. You might want to blame your partner for what has happened but ask yourself, what will this achieve? In the long-term, it will only make having an amicable relationship harder. It’s important only to take responsibility for what you are responsible for, ensure that your partner also takes responsibility for their part in things.

Discuss the relationship you want going forward

It is vital that going forward; you are clear about what you want. Are you willing to work at being friends in the future or would you prefer to end things amicably and cut all ties? It’s important that you are clear with your partner now so that there is no confusion. If you want nothing more to do with them, be very clear about that. Don’t create hope when there is none. This isn’t sparing the other person upset; it is setting them up for more disappointment and upset in the future.

Breakups are never easy, but you can make the process more amicable by being willing to talk things through with your partner. Remember, honesty is the key to ending things in the right way, so ensure that you are as open as possible.  

  Is bad communication putting the brakes on your relationship?

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If you find it hard to address certain issues, keep reading. Here are three common relationship problems you might have trouble communicating with your partner about, and what you can do to solve them.

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Kicking jealousy to the curb

Feelings of jealousy can cause huge problems in a relationship, and it can be a subject of conversation that you’d prefer to avoid. However, keeping your envy to yourself is a recipe for disaster, and letting it build up could make the situation even worse. Even though you might be anxious to broach the topic, opening up to your partner about your feelings will make you feel like a weight has been lifted. It’s also likely to reassure you that you needn’t feel this way. Having an honest conversation will give you both the opportunity to straighten out any misunderstandings, leaving your bond stronger than ever.

Being honest about health

When it comes to discussing a touchy health problem with your partner, it can be difficult to know where to start – especially if the problem is an intimate issue. For example, if you partner suffers from erectile dysfunction (ED), it’s understandable that he might not want to talk about it, making it all the more difficult for you to approach the subject. However, despite how awkward it might be, ED is something that neither you nor your partner can afford to ignore. ED can actually be the symptom of a more serious health condition, such as heart disease, or it could stem from a psychological problem, such as anxiety or depression.

Your man’s health and wellbeing are paramount, so it’s important to address the situation head on rather than disregard it in the hope it will simply go away. Encouraging your partner to open up is the first step you can take to tackle the problem together. Choosing the right moment is key, and it also helps to do some research about the issue beforehand. For instance, you could talk to him about the different types of treatments available. Your guy can get his hands on effective medicines such as Viagra from Lloyds Pharmacy Online Doctor and other trusted online sources.

Facing up to financial woes

Money is topic that a lot of couples struggle to see eye to eye on, and it can be extremely hard to discuss. Whether it’s credit card debt or frivolous spending, it can be easy for your financial woes to interfere with your relationship. To prevent your money matters from driving a wedge between you and your other half, it pays to team up and address the situation together. Being open and honest with each other is a must, and even if you don’t come to a solid agreement, you could at least meet each other half way in finding a solution to your money problems.

There’s no denying some health problems can be embarrassing to talk about, but as long as you’re sensitive, understanding and helpful, you’ll be able to support your guy in overcoming this problem once and for all. Being open and honest with your partner is essential. Simply plucking up the courage to confide in them could be just what you need to get your relationship moving forward.[/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]

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Every couple has little things that grate on them; things like leaving the toilet seat up or consistently missing the washing bin? Guilty! I don’t know how S puts up with me.. That said, there are a few things I’ve learnt after working and living with my other half – I’m pretty sure this means I’m growing up 

Pick Your Battles

It’s important that you pick your battles. This means choosing the issue that is causing you the most distress and calming address that first. Don’t bring up that time 10 years ago, when they said your bum looked big in that dress if you are trying to let you watch your choice on TV. Keep it relevant and distinct from any other issues or hurts you may be harbouring.

If it is about his appearance, broach it gently by checking out some fashion websites or grooming tips on BeardBro. Remember no one wants to be made to feel awful about themselves. So so barraging them with everything that they have ever done wrong isn’t going to get you the result that you want.

Those In Glass Houses

The next thing to consider when dealing with this issue is to ask are you blameless yourself? As they say, ‘people that live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.’ For one, it can make it really easy to escalate it into a ‘tit for tat’ fight that is not constructive at all. Even if this doesn’t happen, you are going to look pretty hypocritical if you are asking them to be better with money, but you aren’t either. Especially if have five bags of new clothes that you can’t afford, tucked into your wardrobe upstairs!

Pick Your Time

Did you know that men also have a hormonal cycle? But theirs isn’t monthly, it’s actually daily. Their testosterone is highest in the morning making them full of energy and ready to get on with the day. Its falls through the days, so it’s at a medium level by lunch time and at its lowest in the evening. It’s probably not the best idea to ask him to change his ways when his testosterone is high as you are much more likely to get into an argument then.

Try after 4 pm when he may well be a bit more receptive. Remember though that exercise can amp that testosterone back up so give the discussion a miss if he’s fresh back from the gym.

How To Say It

How you ask you, partner, to change a behaviour can have a massive effect on their reaction and their willingness to meet you halfway. Unfortunately, us women are often accused of nagging if we ask the guys to do anything more than once. But making a special effort to ask them as an equal, and giving them the space to complete the task can help in this sort of situation.

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Your routine can take over of work, sleep and repeat that time can just slip away from you. I’ve felt like this a lot recently, which is one of the main reasons I went self employed. So I thought I would share with you some fun things to do with your BFFs. 

Heading away for the weekend

If you have a whole weekend free then why not consider heading off somewhere and exploring a new place. You can get some great last minute deals online. You could consider staying in this country or venturing off on a city break somewhere. Places like Paris or Barcelona are always quite popular. This gives you the whole weekend to connect and catch up with everyone. I’m sure it will offer a lot of laughs along the way as well.

Paint balling

Something a little different could be to organise a paint balling afternoon. This might be great for just the boys, but I think girls can get a lot of fun out of it as well. If you are a mixed group then why not let the girls take on the boys. There are plenty of paintball reviews that you can read before booking anything. I’m sure everyone will have a great time.

A spa afternoon

The last suggestion could be a relaxing afternoon in a spa. A chance for you and your friends to unwind and enjoy one another’s company while having your nails done. You could even consider having a massage or facial. Some spas offer packages which can be great value for money. You could even add on a two course meal or an afternoon tea in some places.

A night out on the town

There’s nothing quite like getting your best clothes on and heading out for a night on the town with your best friends. You can have a meal and drinks and make a whole evening of it. You could even finish off dancing the night away. I think a good night will always make for incredible memories. I’m avoiding booze at the moment, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun!! 

A day at the races

If you like getting dressed up then why not consider a day at the races. You don’t have to be big on gambling to enjoy the day. It can be just as much fun to enjoy the atmosphere and drink a few glasses of champagne. Everyone makes a real effort to look great for a day at the races. You might want to consider ladies day at some race courses where the fashion is something worth seeing.

I hope these ideas inspire you to book a date with your friends as soon as possible.

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